Tuesday, September 14, 2010

complaining is an addiction

and i was an addict. i realise i complain easily. and i don't do it quietly, i tried to let other ppl now that i'm not happy.

and lately i realise, everyone probably know me as a complainer.. which isn't exactly a good way to be recognised isn't it. While some might actually put their shoes in mine and sympathize, most of the times, it's just plain annoying. Even i don't like a complainer if i see one.

So why i keep doing it? simple, i'm addicted to it. it's like smoking, first you are not used to it, but when you keep at it, it's become a natural thing. it serves as a stress relieve. and though i feel satisfaction from it, it's just not good for my mental health.

so i decided to stop this habit. and the only way to do it is just to stop completely. when i want to complain, just STOP. it's hard, but it's worth it.

I'm really looking forward to see me as a free man... not sure if i can really do it. but when there's a will, there's a way.

5 comments:

  1. hey dude, u alrite? be strong kay, there will be a way, God will make the way and let me know if u need anything? prayer? :)

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  2. thanks allie! i'm alright, this post was written with a sense of peacefulness actually hehehe, but a prayer is always welcomed :D

    been a while since we've been blogging yeah?

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  3. yeah i knowww.... i havent been writing much either... been too busy but i missed embracing this inner geekness of a writer in me...

    how hv ya been?

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  4. i'm good thanks :) how you've been?

    and yeah it seems life is just getting busier and busier isn't it...

    modern life is so overrated.. i wish we can go back to the oldies where life is much slower back then..

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  5. been busy with work and ben :p but yeah managing... justru klo nganggur agak bingung...

    older days were gorgeous, eh. i'd love to life back then as well, but i guess back then there weren't as much technology to help us with things either... each era will have highs and lows... i am just glad to be able to live happily right now :3

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